Random Thought

We all wanna be loved, we all want the attention and affection from the ones we love, but when it's not given we start to think to ourselves...am I not good enough? You can try and please the other person as much as you want but if they don't love you, they won't show what isn't there.

Cheating

Have you ever been cheated on? What feelings were you going through when it happened?

I myself have been cheated on too many times. My ex fiance cheated on me with my "best friend" right next to me while I "slept." What I felt was anger, hatred, betrayal, and disrespected. We were together for four years and everything was fantastic...until the last 2 years. He was distant, always wanting to hang with the guys and not go home to sleep in our own bed, and wasn't interested in doing anything with me.

When we moved back down to Penndel to live with his mother that's when things quickly turned around. He told me he didn't like being home and he wanted to always drink beers with the guys like ALL the time. I simply wanted to feel like I was still number one and he put me at the bottom without a second thought. That is what really smacked me in the face..And THEN he out of the blue wanted a break! You know what I did? 

I packed one outfit and shoved random stuff into my duffle bag and left for my mothers'. He told me I could stay there, but who wants to stay in a place surrounded by his family and constantly watching him leave? I know I didn't want that. Before I left I took my engagement ring off and gave it to him. I said "Give it back to me when you know what you want, because I am tired of telling you what I want." 

He now loves to tell people I broke his heart, but fails to tell anyone his own faults..he ruined us, he pushed me away. Tell me who really broke who's heart?

What do you do when your significant other wants to...

What do you do when your significant other wants to party and be with the "guys" or "girls"?

I am asking you guys this question. How or what are we supposed to feel when our partner doesn't want to spend time with you like you used to? Have you ever had someone tell you, "just to let you know if you marry me your marring my friends as well"? What would you say if you were in that situation?

I know that you can't always be happy in a relationship and you will fight one way or another, but what if it's often? Of course you don't want to just leave the one you love because you (I hope) want to work things out. Let's say it was just the two of you for awhile and then all of a sudden you are on the back burner, because they want to party and hang out with their friends. What about you? Weren't you there when no one else was? What do you do? If you don't want to give me your answer as to what you are going to do ask yourself...what would I do in these situations?