Have a Question or Need Advice?

To get in touch with me and send me your questions please send an email to:

Dear_bekka@yahoo.com
I am willing to hear and answer everything that I can.
The way I see it everyone's pain is worth listening to.

Who Says We have To?

Valentine's Day


This Valentine's Day forget all about what you and your significant other were arguing about, or what your brother/sister did to upset you, and just cherish the moments together. To me Valentine's Day is really just a holiday to make you buy heart shaped boxed candy. Even though that is how I feel doesn't mean that's what it is about. Valentine's Day can just be a day where we come together, and spread love all around the world. Since most of us can't really do that how about starting in your household or in your neighborhood?


Yes, we all seem to celebrate Valentine's Day with our crush or boyfriend/girlfriend, and even husband/wife.
But, who says we HAVE TO? Think about it.

It's Your Turn to Vent

Hello Everyone!

I know that life has it's ups and downs..sometimes one more than the other.
We all need someone outside of our tight circle to talk to, and I would like to be that person. I have recently lost my best friend, my father and it has tremendously changed who I once was at least, on the inside. I do know one thing, my family sticking by me has more than helped. Another person who has always been there for me is my fiance Sam.


I can talk to him about absolutely everything. I know the feeling of not knowing what to do next after loosing someone you deeply care for, or just everyday problems. Even though I am only 23 years old, I too have had rough times just like everyone else. Wouldn't it feel nice to be able to vent about things and get advice without feeling like you've hurt someone's feelings? Let me be that person.